First Day of Developmental Pre-school at 3 years Old

Dear daughter,
Let's talk about your first day of school. I was overjoyed that you entered pre kindergarten. However, aside from the usual worries of whether you were ready for school or not, I wondered how much help you would need. I sat you in the yellow chair shaped like a bee that we brought from home, then I said good bye and you seemed happy. I left your school wondering, worrying, and afraid.


I had no idea what you would need for school, aside from school supplies. Pre-school was not only new to you, but also to me, although I had already been through it with your older brother. I kept thinking about you would get around in your classroom. I kept thinking about how you would defend yourself if another child tried to bite or attack you in any way, as it is usual with toddlers your age. What if you needed something you couldn't get to, how would you get around?


The morning went by and it was time to pick you up... I got to the classroom window to pick through and there you were. My beautiful princess, sitting in your bee chair while the other kids played and ran around. You seemed so content and that made me feel so happy. All the kids started to get their backpacks while you waited patiently trying to figure it all out. Then, I couldn't hold back my tears when kids came running to the door as their parents picked them up. You sat in your chair and waited, then you saw me and got so excited that I was there. You told me what a great day you had and how much you played with your friends. Your teachers said that you were such a happy girl! They made some changes and accommodations to make easier access for you, just like the other kids. Your cubby was made accessible so that you could place your backpack and lunchbox inside all by yourself. The next day, you were the first one to come out of the classroom with the help of your teachers, that was very special.


When I left you in school on the first day, I was wondering, worrying, and afraid. Today however, I am no longer worried or afraid because I see that you love school. It was a very hard decision to get you started by now I know it was the best choice I made. You love your teachers and friends. I am learning what you need as we go along so that I can be a better advocate for you.